Conversational hypnosis is full of various techniques that you can use on other people to get what you want! It is a way that you can consciously act on their subconscious minds, without them knowing it. Of course, I always encourage people to use conversational hypnosis for good because there are so many powerful things you can do with conversational hypnosis.

In this article, I am going to introduce a unique and interesting topic. I am going to talk about eye-accessing cues. You can actually look at someone’s face and look at their eyes. You can watch the direction in which their eyes are moving with each thing that they are saying or thinking.

The importance of watching their eyes during a conversation is that their eyes can reveal what their mind is thinking. Now let’s talk about the six different eye-accessing cues:

Visually Created (VC): when someone is looking up and to the left (if you are facing them) they are visually creating something in their mind. They are trying to create a new image.

Auditory Created (AC): when someone is looking across to the left they are auditory creating something in their mind. They are trying create something that they heard.

Kinesthetic (K): when someone looks down to the left, they are creating something kinesthetically in their mind. They refer to the sense of touch or motion.

Visually Remembered (VR): when someone is looking up and to the right, they are remembering a visual image.

Auditory Remembered (AC): when someone is looking across and to the right, they are trying to remember something that they heard.

Internal Dialogue (ID): when someone is looking down and to the right, they are repeating their inner dialogue.

Watching someone’s eye-accessing cues takes practice. You have to be very in tune with what they are saying and the direction of their eye movements. As with any of these conversational hypnosis techniques, it will take some practice getting used to. I encourage you to practice with friends and really pay attention to their eye-accessing cues. Go have fun with it!

Conversational hypnosis is a program consisting of many hypnosis and NLP techniques. These techniques you can be useful in many different situations such as dating, sales, and developing rapport with another person. It is a way that you can consciously act on someone’s subconscious mind, without them knowing it. Of course, I always encourage people to use conversational hypnosis for good because there are so many powerful techniques you can use with conversational hypnosis.

In my last article I talked about the six different eye accessing cues. They were: visually created (VC), auditory created (AC), kinesthetic (K), visually remembered (VR), auditory remembered (AR), and internal dialogue (IR). Basically, these cues are apparent by the direction someone is looking and thus you can read what is going on in their mind.

Law enforcement agencies train their agents with this technology. This is true in the USA and probably other countries. The Federal Agents are trained at FLETC. The fact that the US government pays money to have their Federal Agents trained in this technology is good news. The US Federal Government sees that it is important to train their agents with this technique so that their agents can get into the minds of someone they are interrogating.

Do keep in mind that this information is out there. If you have someone staring right at you, it may be someone who is using this technology on you. Chances are you will be dealing with a date, someone to whom you may be selling something to, a child, a parent, husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend or someone who is your boss or employee.

Before you can use any of this technology you must first determine which way the person is oriented, referring to whether they use the accessing cues “normally” or the opposite. If you want to see if someone is normally oriented, you would talk to them about something you know they have never seen before. For example, you might mention a character in a movie or something that would require them to create something visual. They would have to create it in their minds. You will then see which way they look when they create something visual. If they look up to their right, you know that they are normally oriented. If they look up to their left, you know that they are oppositely oriented.

As you can see it will take some practice to get used to someone’s eye accessing cues. After you have practiced with some friends, go ahead and try it out on people you don’t know. Try to see if you can get into their mind. Learning eye-accessing cues is a very powerful technique. It allows you learn a little more about the person you are talking to than if you were just having a normal conversation.

I encourage you to go out and try this technique on people. It is fascinating and a great skill to have!

You may be familiar with the hypnosis you see on TV or at stage shows. You know the kind, the kind where a hypnotist is able to have people sit in a chair and then supposedly turn them into chickens, and things like that.

You may often ask yourself “Is that real, or is the hypnotist just using actors?”. The answer is of course, that yes, it is very real, however you may be surprised to know that there is a much more advanced form of hypnosis than that, a kind of hypnosis that can be used in your day to day life on people without them being aware of it. And this field is known as “covert hypnosis”.

It makes sense, if a hypnotist can hypnotize people at a stage show, then surely he’d be able to do it off the stage as well, when people aren’t aware of it? The answer is of course that yes, a trained hypnotist can do just that. You see, entertainment hypnosis is the only form of hypnosis that you’re exposed to. Covert hypnosis, because its discreet, is a type of hypnosis you will never heard about, nor will you see it on TV. Covert hypnosis is of course, by its very nature… covert.

It’s the type of hypnosis that politicians, faith healers, mentalists, illusionists, even psychics use in order to hypnotize many people into doing things, or thinking certain things. Covert hypnosis is used by professionals each and every day to make people fall in love, to bring them into false belief systems, to make them part with their money, and many other powerful things.

The powers of covert hypnosis are practically endless, and once this field is mastered, many things become possible. But how does it work exactly? Covert hypnosis works by influencing a person’s subconscious outside of the person’s conscious awareness. Whenever we’re consciously aware of a suggestion, we cannot be hypnotized by it. This is because our consciousness contains a critical part to it, which constantly analyzes everything that passes through it.

If our conscious were to come across any information, or suggestion that it didn’t agree with, then it would immediately reject it. For example, if I told you right now “you will raise your right hand”, you most likely wouldn’t, since I’m giving your consciousness an instruction. If however I plant subtle suggestions within your mind, and then trigger these suggestions subconsciously, without you being consciously aware of it, then it becomes quite possible for me to make you raise your right hand.

As you can see, by its very nature, covert hypnosis isn’t obvious. The only real way to tell if someone is using covert hypnosis on you is to learn the field yourself.

If you’ve ever been to a stage hypnosis show, you may have been quite impressed with the seemingly magical feats displayed by the stage hypnotist. Perhaps you thought that you too would like to learn stage hypnosis, and how it works.

In this article I will be discussing the basic principles behind stage hypnosis and how it operates. This should give you an understanding of the techniques involved, and help you in your journey to learn stage hypnosis.

To begin with, a stage hypnotist will always conduct some form of induction with the audience before getting to the real “meat” of the show (which is bringing people up on stage to be hypnotized). This induction normally consists of having all the audience imagine that they’re in some distant place, or having them raise both of their hands and imagining that one is lighter or heavier than the other.

What this does is it relaxed the audience and sets them in the mood to be hypnotized. You see, once someone has been hypnotized once, they can easily be rehypnotized again by the same person with just the click of a finger. The trick with stage hypnosis is to hypnotize the audience before volunteers are brought up on stage. Since the volunteers would have been hypnotized at the beginning of the show when they were in the crowd, they will easily fall into hypnosis again once they come up on stage.

This is a crucial step that you should be aware of if you wish to learn stage hypnosis. Most people are not aware that when the hypnotist is guiding them into hypnosis, and explaining to them what hypnosis is, that they’re actually becoming perfect volunteers. If the hypnotist just asked someone on the street to come up on stage, then odds are the hypnotist wouldn’t be able to hypnotize them with just the click of their fingers.

Now once an audience member comes up on stage, they will already have confidence in the hypnotist, especially since they experience hypnosis earlier, and are aware of what it is. This builds up expectation in the person that hypnosis will work. All the hypnotist must then do is simply click their fingers, and the person will enter into a trance state. Once a person is in this state of trance, they become susceptible to whatever suggestions the hypnotist wishes to plant.

One of the most popular suggestions is of course to make a person believe they’re a chicken, although if you want to learn stage hypnosis, it’s always good to improvise and try something different.

Now there is of course a lot more to stage hypnosis that what this article has explained, and there is no way I could explain it all within this article alone. Therefore if you want to learn stage hypnosis, then I recommend finding out a good online course that will teach you the techniques required.

Conversational hypnosis is all about getting your way. Who does not want to get their way and be in control of situations? Being in control gives you power and that leads to getting what you want.

The most important aspect of conversational hypnosis is learning the art of developing rapport with another person. Rapport is the ability to be “in tune” with someone subconsciously. It is important to establish rapport because rapport will help you gain a sense of trust with the other person. Rapport will allow you to persuade and control to ultimately get your way.

Seventy percent of a “conversation” occurs without words. You can convey a lot with body language, facial expression, and hand gestures. There are different techniques to use while interacting with someone. Both verbal and non-verbal cues are used to establish rapport.

Rapport can be established verbally and non-verbally through pacing and mirroring. Pacing is doing what someone else does in the same way that they do it. Pacing can be verbal or non-verbal, involving conversation, body language, and rhythm to name a few. Mirroring is non-verbal and involves body language, hand gestures, and anything not involving conversation. In this article I will just talk about pacing.

Establishing rapport using pacing can involve figuring out a persons representational system (ie: visual, auditory, kinesthetic) and using this to your advantage. Matching someone’s representational system makes the other person feel as though you are able to easily relate to them.

Another pacing technique involves listening to the other person’s rhythm as they speak. Most people have a natural cadence to their speech. Pay attention to their tempo and see if you can match it. This creates rapport with a natural cadence and flow to the conversation.

Another cue to pay attention to is their tone of voice. Is it high pitched or low pitched? If it is a very distinct pitch, then it is probably not a good idea to match because it could cause the opposite of rapport! If matching their voice tone involves just a slight change in your tone, then try it out. You will be surprised at how easy this technique is.

In order to establish rapport through pacing, you must practice! Give yourself around one week to try these techniques out on friends or strangers. It is a lot of fun to practice at a party. Be patient and practice and you too can master these skills to develop rapport.

Conversational hypnosis is the ability to “hypnotize” people through conversation. I put the word hypnotize in quotations because generally speaking, conversational hypnosis does not put someone in a trance. Learning the skills of conversational hypnosis enables you to get what you want from people.

Everyone wants the ability to get what they want from other people. Conversational hypnosis allows you to develop rapport with another person so that you are easily able to convey what you want either in a direct or embedded way.

Conversational hypnosis deals a lot with NLP or Neuro Linguistic Programming. One aspect of NLP and conversational hypnosis are representational systems. There are three major representational systems: visual, auditory, and kinesthetic.

The visual representational system describes people who gravitate towards their visual field. These are types of people who are more in tune with their visual field. When explaining something to someone who is visual they are most likely to picture it in their minds. Later, when accessing this conversation or story a visual person will be able to visualize the story in their head.

The auditory representational system describes people who gravitate towards their auditory field. These people are more in tune with their hearing ability and with sounds. They tend to listen to words and sounds and associate things with these words and sounds. People who are lean toward an auditory representation system often say “sounds good” or “I hear what you are saying.”

The kinesthetic representational system describes people who depend on their feeling or sense of touch. These people are most in tune with their sense of touch. When talking with someone who depends on their kinesthetic representational system, they might say “hold on” when they are asking you to wait.

When I work with clients, I like to figure out whether they depend on visual, auditory, or kinesthetic clues. When I figure out what representational system describes them, I am better able to develop rapport with them. Developing rapport is very important during any type of therapy between a client and their therapist whether it is hypnotherapy or psychiatry.

Being able to appeal to a client’s representational system allows me to develop rapport with them and a level of trust is established. It also helps the client realize that I am there to help them make positive changes in their life. They feel as though I understand exactly what they are going through. A client is more likely to make changes in their own life if they feel confident and at ease around their therapist.

Conversational hypnosis is a program of powerful techniques used to persuade and control those around you. Not only is conversational hypnosis used so that you have influence over others, but it is also used so that other people do not take advantage of you. Conversational hypnosis allows you to establish rapport with other individuals and that leads to you getting what you want.

The most important aspect of conversational hypnosis is learning how to develop rapport with other people. Rapport is the ability to be “in tune” with someone subconsciously. Rapport will enable others to have trust in you. Rapport will allow you to gain their trust so that you can get what you want.

In past articles we have talked about establishing rapport through pacing and mirroring techniques. In this article I am going to talk about the technique of leading. Leading is a technique to use after you have been pacing someone for about 5-10 minutes. However, I highly suggest practicing leading for a week on friends or strangers before trying it out to get what you want.

Leading is where you make someone do what you want them to do. For example, if you have been pacing and mirroring someone for a little while, it is time to test to see if they have developed rapport with you. If you have established rapport correctly, you can take the lead by doing something and they will follow.

It is important to make sure you have mastered mirroring and pacing before you move on to leading. Be sure to practice all three techniques before being put in a serious position where you intend to lead someone. These techniques take a little bit of practice to master and before long you will be a master of conversational hypnosis.

While practicing on friends or strangers, I suggest keeping the leading simple. For example, after you have mirrored and paced someone for 5-10 minutes, you can lead them by scratching your head. If they scratch their head, you have accomplished your goal of leading them.

Leading is a great technique to use in a business setting because you can get them to do what you want them to do. However, it is very important to be careful in a business setting. It is possible that other business people know about conversational hypnosis. Let’s say for example that you scratch your head. If the other person waits a little while and then scratches their head, then your technique is a success. However if they scratch their head very quickly after you did, perhaps they are trying to pace you. So, be careful!

Another way you can use leading is to slow someone’s voice tempo, or to speed it up. If someone is speaking too quickly, you can start slowing down your voice and see if they follow your lead. Leading has all sorts of possibilities. I encourage you to practice this skill and soon you will be leading people to do what you want!

By Michael Webb

Are You frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and romance that it once had?

 You’re not alone.

 Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also kill the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place.

 Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to reignite that magic:

 1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT

 Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner’s workplace, such as:  “For the immediate and urgent attention of:  Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

 2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN

 If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from their childhood.

 3. FUN WITH WATER

 On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.

 4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST

 Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

 5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES

 Contact your partner’s family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted. You can do this for your man too.

 6. STARE AT THE CLOUDS

 Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds.

 7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH

 Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.

 8. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT

 Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.

 9. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER

 Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find it, with a note on it saying: “Thank you for coming into my life.”

 10. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING

 Probably the most profound way to rekindle the romance in your relationship is to spice up your lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love, try a new position, learn to give your partner a sensual massage before or after, or just spend some time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before making love.

 Many people underestimate the affect passionate and intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you spice it up, chances are you and your partner will naturally do romantic things for each other. Why?

Because passionate lovemaking connects two people in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing else can.

 About the Author:

 Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. Click Here, to read more.

By Michael Webb

 Here are five really simple ways to make your lovemaking more hot, steamy and passionate… (Even starting tonight)

 1. Find your partner’s “hidden” zones

 I call these “hidden” zones because many people don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the body LOVE attention.

 While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, breasts, inner thighs and genitals, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm.

 Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.

 2. Set a romantic mood

 People often think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is too “cliché.” Are they kidding!

Your partner will LOVE YOU for this.

 Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much? Point made.

 3. Give them a sensual massage

 Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further and give your partner a sensual massage that makes them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable.

 Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by having them slowly undress during the massage. Then kiss, caress and slowly transition “under the sheets” where a massage of another kind can take place.

 And no, you don’t need years of study to give a great massage. Just grab some candles and music, and bless your partner with an experience they’ll never forget.

 4. Please your partner with more oral sex

 Did you know that oral sex is a great way to strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. Not to mention it’s great for men who want to relax without pressure to perform, and for women who can’t reach orgasm from only intercourse. In short, it’s an important part of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and women.

 LADIES: Women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straight away when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches.

This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation.

 GENTLEMAN: A mistake men often make is moving their tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet around the clitoris with your tongue.

 5. Constantly explore and try new things

 If I could only give you one piece of advice for better lovemaking, it would be this: become adventurous and creative.

 Nothing is stopping you from red-hot passion except your level of creativity. Try a new position, do it somewhere new, or spice up your foreplay with a game.

 Let’s face it, the basic act of lovemaking, no matter how hard you try, is always kiss and thrust, but it’s HOW you do it and the way you make your partner feel that really counts.

 By dedicating time to finding new things, you can turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary lovemaking. This is the sure-fire way to make sure your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and intimate for years to come.

 About the Author:

 Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To read more, click here.

By Michael Webb

Did you know that people who try to spice up their lovemaking, often make their experiences LESS fulfilling? It’s true.

Over the years, I’ve seen couples make the same mistakes over and over again, when trying to improve their love lives, and I’d like to teach you how to overcome and avoid these problems.

Here are the 7 lovemaking mistakes. Are you making them?

MISTAKE #1: Feeling scared or embarrassed to talk about trying new things

Have you ever had an idea to spice up your lovemaking but were afraid of what your partner may think?

Believe it or not, in 90% of cases, your partner would LOVE to try something new, too, but they’re just as uncomfortable or embarrassed about bringing it up as you are.

And you don’t need to introduce whips, chains or a third person. That’s nonsense! There are hundreds of ways to bring variety to your passionate play that aren’t crude or dangerous and that your partner is sure to be comfortable with.

MISTAKE #2: Trying to convince the partner to make love

If your lover is tired or not in the mood for sex, trying to convince or persuade them to have sex almost NEVER works.

On the other hand, when a person is sexually aroused, their body releases the chemical ‘adrenaline’ into the bloodstream. This chemical is what gives you the energy to make love. So here’s how to arouse them the right way. Yes, even if they’re tired.

Ladies: Want to get him in the mood? Give him fellatio or manually stroke him between 9 ­ 10 in the morning. This is when his testosterone levels are highest for the day. For better results, also wear something sexy or nothing at all. He’ll like that.

Lads: Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest ‘turn-ons’ for women. Looking in her eyes and touching her face while kissing her can really increase arousal, too. And give some attention to her neck­­it will drive her wild. But don’t rush this! Spend quality time building up her arousal with your sensual kisses.

MISTAKE #3: Neglecting foreplay to enjoy intercourse sooner

People in a relationship (especially men) tend to neglect foreplay so they can begin to enjoy intercourse sooner, but did you know that foreplay is actually said to intensify orgasms?

That’s right. If you kiss, caress and touch longer, you can make your lovemaking even more satisfying.

So SLOW DOWN. Take your time. If you want to make it even better, tease your partner in a playful way. (This works like crazy.)

If you find something that they really enjoy, stop doing it, move back, and then do it again later.

The more you pull back and push forward, the more they’ll want it. And the more intense their experience will be. There are many games you can play to heighten this anticipation, too.

MISTAKE #4: Using toys or porn to make your lovemaking better

When sex hits a rough patch, many couples (men especially) think that a video, some plastic or vibrating thingy will instantly takes things through the roof.

Wrong!… While toys can certainly have their place in your lovemaking repertoire, relying on them can be extremely dangerous. These outside sources of pleasure can quickly make lovemaking even less fulfilling.

Why? Because you don’t want your partner to end up looking forward to their plastic toy for pleasure more than they look forward to pleasure with you, do you? Couples need to first fully discover how to please all their spouses’ body parts before introducing other elements. Use them as a spice, not the main course.

MISTAKE #5: Trying to make the woman orgasm ONLY from intercourse

Men often feel “unmanly” if they can’t satisfy their woman from intercourse. But what they need to understand is that a large number of women can’t achieve orgasm through normal lovemaking.

Just knowing this takes the pressure off men completely. Now there’s no need to get upset when their women don’t reach orgasm. Instead, men should master the art of cunnilingus (going down on a woman).

MISTAKE #6: Trying to “finish” at the same time

Simultaneous orgasms are quite overrated. Instead of aiming for one orgasm that you share together, focus completely on the woman’s needs first.

Hold off from the positions you find most enjoyable and instead make love in ways that are most pleasurable for your lady, until she is completely satisfied. That way you have a much greater chance of both climaxing.

MISTAKE #7: Sticking to a “set routine” too often

You know the drill. You take your clothes off, insert part A into part B, and, within a few minutes, the routine is over. Sound familiar?

No matter how fantastic lovemaking can be, there’s no denying it can get boring over the years. And the reason is because lovemaking in its basic act is always the same. But the danger is letting it get “too routine,” which can begin to affect your relationship.

The BEST WAY to protect your love life and precious connection with your partner is to have lots of new lovemaking ideas ready at your disposal.

That’s the secret.

In fact, when you have an abundance of NEW tips and techniques ready, you’ll enjoy more hot, steamy and passionate lovemaking, discover newfound enthusiasm to make love and even make love more often.

About the Author:

 Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit this site.