By Michael Webb
Is there such thing as “the best” lovemaking position?
Actually there is!
However, the best positions for men and women are different. Also, did you know that by moving even one inch in any direction while in these positions, you can dramatically change the feeling and intensity of a position?
Take your time to find the best angles for the both of you, while using these positions.
The Best Position For Women To Climax
The reverse missionary is identical to the traditional missionary except that she is on top.
This is probably the easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.
Since you typically want the women to orgasm first, this would be one of your first positions and then move to a position where the guy has full control for his orgasm.
You can vary your leg positions by both of you spreading your legs, or by alternating the one who has them spread and the one who has them together.
The Best Position For Men To Orgasm
Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. Although you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It is great for guys because it gives them full control.
This is one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot and allows you to fondle her breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. Even she can touch her clitoris in this position.
She kneels before you (some women enjoy it more if their head is down on a pillow) and you enter her from behind.
The main benefit for the guy is a view of her beautiful bottom and being able to see the action, while getting incredibly deep penetration (above-average guys need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).
The Mistake Couples Make Using Lovemaking Positions
Of course, books show dozens, if not hundreds, of sexual positions, but the reality is that there are maybe only eight basic positions, with slight variations for each.
So what happens when you’ve tried all eight positions to death? Let’s face itin the end, lovemaking is generally always the same.
That’s why you should explore ALL aspects of sexuality about each other. I don’t mean anything freaky here. I just mean cultivate an adventurous spirit. Turn foreplay into a game. Add a prop or two.
Try a new place. How about starting off with a plate of fruits? There are literally HUNDREDS of ways you can make your lovemaking more exciting, passionate and fulfilling long-term, rather than just trying new positions.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience.